LeBron James and the complicated art of saying goodbye

LeBron James, in his 23rd NBA season, is facing an unfamiliar situation as he approaches his 41st birthday, prompting reflections on his career and potential retirement. The essay explores how James, who entered the league in 2003 amid cultural milestones like George W. Bush's presidency and the rise of "The Apprentice," has dominated the NBA for nearly a quarter-century, evolving from a rookie with 25 points in his debut to a multifaceted figure encompassing headlines, stats, and championships.

James's career is at a critical juncture, with questions arising about when and how he might say goodbye to basketball, especially as he grapples with a future that may not involve the Los Angeles Lakers. His absence from the Lakers' opening night game against the Golden State Warriors for the first time in his career has fueled speculation, ranging from health issues like sciatica to strategic exits or adapting to not being the team's focal point, suggesting he may be attempting to craft his own ending.

Throughout his journey, James's greatest rival has always been time, not other players like Kobe Bryant or Michael Jordan. The essay draws parallels to Steve Nash's experience, highlighting the psychological challenge athletes face when retiring, as they must grieve their former selves. For James, who has maintained control over his career, deciding when to bow out presents a profound difficulty, making this phase a potentially fascinating point in his legacy.